I can see now that Call of the Quean was not just my coming out as a bisexual, submissive cuckquean; it became a place of familiarity and comfort as I navigated through a very new, unfamiliar and, literally, foreign world: France. It was the great departure and a new awakening from my small-town life. In a year I grew beyond expectation; my appreciation for home deepened; and the love I never could find for myself blossomed and flourished…
Since COTQ’s debut, and despite the many moments I felt like giving up, I’ve learned French (although not fluently), I married my Dominant, Master J, and started my own sex coaching business!
2018, to say the least, is a year of beautiful changes and celebrations. As a small tribute to myself, and to the loyal followers I’ve had along the way (especially my Collar Club Members), I’ve summed up the best 10 COTQ moments of 2018. Here we go…
A Stripper Saved My Life, March 5, 2018
I will never forget my Portuguese beauty. If it weren’t for her, the Quean wouldn’t exist. Probably my most personal post, debuting this magical, online sex-palace I’ve created for myself. A Stripper Saved My Life recounts my visit to a small strip joint in Porto, Portugal late 2017. After entering the small boutique, and being confronted by an anxiety that years of body shaming and mental illness produced, I found myself consumed by the slow, sultry moves of a curvy, caramel-skinned dancer. She sparked something in me – quenching the dried up goddess that laid dormant inside of me for years – releasing my sexual potential; releasing the Quean.
Porn Date, April 9, 2018
Confession: Prior to this article, I had never watched porn…at least not for its main purpose: to get off. Of course, when Master J discovered this, there was much discussion over how we could enjoy it together. As someone who had a bad taste in my mouth as a result of previous boyfriends h
iding porn behind my back, to the point that they were watching it more than they were engaging with me, it took some time to come around to the idea. But, as the title suggests, I did! And it was awesome!
Sex Club Prep, May 7, 2018
This topic had been requested a couple of times, and as someone who has a profound appreciation for sex clubs (the combination of exhibitionism and voyeurism all rolled into one experience!), I jumped in the saddle almost immediately. For anyone who has ever considered going to a sex club, but perhaps are feeling a bit afraid or intimidated, this one was for you!
Les Chandelles, May 30, 2018
I attended a dinner date at the most famous sex club in all of Paris – perhaps even France. I was blown away by its food, décor, and ambiance. Even if the club itself didn’t create space (literally) for the sexual experience I was hoping for, Les Chandelles is definitely one of the seven wonders of the sex world.
I Like a Girl, June 20, 2018
This is a brief, yet personal article following my first experience bringing another woman into bed with Master J and I. It was messy, beautiful and reaffirming…
BDSM Travel Basics, June 11, 2018
All of us kinky folk have our “staple” items. In BDSM Basics I covered what Master J and I bring with us, regardless of where we go – friends apartments, families houses, hotels… Since we travel so frequently, we’ve learned to narrow it down to a few essential items. Hope this assists when you have limited space, but still want to get freaky.
Liberated: The New Sexual Revolution, August 6, 2018
A passionate and emotional response to the documentary with the same title. As someone who deeply resents the social construct of gender, this documentary hit more than just a nerve. It delves into subjects such as gender, sexuality, sexual assault, masculinity and femininity, and does so by way of following groups of college students on spring break. There were several moments during this film I had to stop it to catch my breath, and keep the vomit down. It has themes of violence against women, so please, be cautious before reading the post OR watching the film.
I Married My Dom (+Q&A), October 16, 2018
Detailing one of the happiest days of my life, as well as answering questions from the audience, I wore a smile during the entire composition and posting of this article. My relationship with my Dominant is of utmost importance to me, and I was thrilled to be able to share this with everyone!
At Cuck Speed, November 14, 2018
Probably the most requested topic of the year, At Cuck Speed is my personal guide to having a cuck relationship. From trusting your Cuck partner to respecting their pace, I try to consider all potential roadblocks by providing details of my own personal cuckquean journey.
Label Me, pt I, December 4, 2018
Of the three part Label Me series, part one was my favourite. Going into its composition, I really wasn’t sure what I could say about being a submissive. I knew that it had always been a part of my sexual nature, although I hadn’t always been able to act on it. It’s pieces like this that make me the most proud… the moments where you let yourself go in your medium, without expectation of the outcome, and somehow create something that hits people. I had a lot of feedback from this one; many readers thanking me for writing such an honest, emotional and inspiring piece. I hadn’t even meant for it to be that…sometimes just being open, being yourself, can help people find relief.
The Characters of COTQ
If you missed any of these exclusive interviews at the time of their release, I definitely encourage you to take a moment now, tomorrow or in the days to come, to get acquainted with them, as I’m sure their voices will reemerge in the future.
Date with a Dom: Part I, Part II, Part III, Part IV
Yes, I got up close and personal with my Dominant, Master J, over glasses of wine and multiple dinner dates. This is what we learned…
He went from shameful to shameless after discovering SPH (small penis humiliation) and submission. He is one of the most open and brave people I have had the opportunity of speaking to! Plus, he worships women…what isn’t to adore about that?
The Lingerie Guy
As a man versed in the art of ladies undergarments, he continues to challenge heteronormativity by proving lace and ribbon aren’t just reserved for women. His lingerie knowledge base will put most women to shame (myself included)! If you’re in need of inspiration or recommendations, he will be your dream come true.
Minx: A Memoir: Part I, Part II, Part III
A childhood friend shares stories about her upbringing in a broken, fatherless home. This strong, yet open soul will bring you to tears, while simultaneously providing hope. From falling in love with her mother’s ex fiancé, to receiving an abortion ultimatum, her life reflects many of the struggles too many women face – both young and old. If nothing else, Minx is a blunt voice of heroinism, and hope.
Interview with Dalma Rosa
Also known as Cuckquean Café, Dalma Rose and I discuss her cuckquean journey – the good, the bad and the ugly. She is an author of the book, My Husband and the Au-pair: A Cuckquean Fantasy, and has recently been coaching others who are looking to step into this lifestyle. She is sexy, genuine and straight forward about living a cuck life.
The Essential Witch
Conducting this interview was one of the funnest experiences I’ve had since starting this blog. It doesn’t hurt that the interviewee was my baby sister. She brings her wit and improv skills to the table, providing a unique promotional experience of her new-found love for Young Living®. If you are or have ever been interested in adding the benefits of essential oils to your life, this is a post for you! The Essential Witch is working her magic (no pun intended) to bring toxic-free, vegan products to the lives of anyone who is interested.
Again, I want to thank everyone who has been with me on this journey, be it through reading my posts, being featured, or being active online via commenting or social media channels.
I can promise that 2019 will be an even BIGGER year for Call of the Quean, with lots of surprises in store! Keep your eyes peeled for what’s to come, you won’t be disappointed.
Until next time,
Happy New Year
Fuck well, friends!