I hesitated to include this inquiry; however, it’s one I’ve received several times on various platforms, and decided it needed an answer – with finality. It is a fair question, with a very simple answer…
I would not consider making an Only Fans. Although I support others who do, Only Fans is not a part of my journey.
My medium is writing and although I have been told that people would “pay for” my beauty, I do not feel that I owe the world to any degree. It has been a process wrapping my brain around this, especially since I’ve been told (from a very young age) that I should show off my body because it is beautiful.
For me, that thinking does three dangerous things:
- It commodifies my female body without my consent.
- It says that my body holds more value than other bodies.
- It says that because my body is “beautiful,” it doesn’t just belong to me; the world has some kind of right to it.
I believe everyone has a right to ask questions, and I thank this person for doing so in a tasteful way. But this is my rightful response:
I am only a fan of Only Fans.
Thanks for your QLQ,
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P.S.S. I want to share this article because it is relevant to my feelings on this topic.