I Had Labiaplasty…

Before Quean Mo existed, a young girl with a different name carried this body around with her. She had her partnered sexual debut at an early age - fourteen, to be exact. Although she felt "grown up" and "ready" for this monumental experience, she had yet to develop her own identity, and was therefore incredibly [...]

The Definition of Sex

A friend of mine can’t have penetrative sex with her partner, due to pain. This has been going on for over a year. She’s seen multiple medical practitioners, who have left her questions unanswered. I’ve watched her shed tears of frustration, and fall into this haunting belief that she’s broken somehow. I began to provide [...]

A Letter: My Brief Life as a Sex Coach

Content Note: this article discusses topics of abuse, suicide, and sexual subject matter. Call of the Quean is just over a year old. She was birthed March 5 of last year. My life has since been a revolving door for people to come and ask relationship or sexuality questions, seek advice on shame-ridden messages they've [...]

One Hell of an Update (Good Luck)

Pride, Snakes & Getting Kicked Off TinderSafe to say a lot has happened since my last blog post. It’s been twenty days of non-stop work, waking up at 7AM every day, getting sick (twice), missing Pride Week due to that said illness, finding a new (unwanted) admirer for Master J, and yes, you read that [...]

Picking Up the Pieces

CONTENT NOTE: This article covers topics of body image, emotional trauma, mental health and eating disorders. If you’ve been following my posts, be it on COTQ or social media, you know that my mental health has been a little haywire lately. Anyone who’s susceptible to emotional lows, as I am, can understand the impact it [...]

RAF – Minx: A Memoir, Pt. III/III

   Before we dive into the final segment of this interview, I want to virtually applaud Minx for her strength, courage and vulnerability. Her truth has shed light on topics that most people are too afraid or ashamed to speak openly about. The female experience of abuse and heart ache is not something to be [...]

RAF – Minx: A Memoir, Pt. I/III

 This Month’s RAF Series features an old friend of mine. We have 23 years of herstory together, having met in kindergarten at the age of 4. CONTENT NOTE: This series covers topics of domestic abuse, sexual assault and relationships between a minor and an adult. Through her confessions and telling, I believe women of all ages [...]