When The Bones Are Good

Friends, This is a unique one. I’m blasting The Bones by Maren Morris as I write this....if you don’t know it, get on Spotify and take a listen. There’s something about the sound, something about the message... I’m a person of many passions, many talents (or so I’ve been told). Writing has been a life [...]

RAF: Introducing Reba Rose

There is no proper way to introduce my first guest writer, Reba Rose. She's a dear friend, a warrior, and a talented wordsmith. When she first asked to write a post for COTQ, I was thrilled! We were both English majors in university (that's where we met), sharing a deep love for the written word. [...]

I Had Labiaplasty…

Before Quean Mo existed, a young girl with a different name carried this body around with her. She had her partnered sexual debut at an early age - fourteen, to be exact. Although she felt "grown up" and "ready" for this monumental experience, she had yet to develop her own identity, and was therefore incredibly [...]

The Definition of Sex

A friend of mine can’t have penetrative sex with her partner, due to pain. This has been going on for over a year. She’s seen multiple medical practitioners, who have left her questions unanswered. I’ve watched her shed tears of frustration, and fall into this haunting belief that she’s broken somehow. I began to provide [...]

A Letter: My Brief Life as a Sex Coach

Content Note: this article discusses topics of abuse, suicide, and sexual subject matter. Call of the Quean is just over a year old. She was birthed March 5 of last year. My life has since been a revolving door for people to come and ask relationship or sexuality questions, seek advice on shame-ridden messages they've [...]

Picking Up the Pieces

CONTENT NOTE: This article covers topics of body image, emotional trauma, mental health and eating disorders. If you’ve been following my posts, be it on COTQ or social media, you know that my mental health has been a little haywire lately. Anyone who’s susceptible to emotional lows, as I am, can understand the impact it [...]

RAF – Minx: A Memoir, Pt. I/III

 This Month’s RAF Series features an old friend of mine. We have 23 years of herstory together, having met in kindergarten at the age of 4. CONTENT NOTE: This series covers topics of domestic abuse, sexual assault and relationships between a minor and an adult. Through her confessions and telling, I believe women of all ages [...]