I Came Out to My Mom

I was raised by an encouraging father who challenged my limiting beliefs, and tried propelling me forward the best he could. He would hug me and whisper in my ear, “you are kind, strong, compassionate; you are talented and can do anything you set your mind to. I love you.” My mother was unconditional with [...]

RAF: The True Evil

It’s Name: Jealousy So here it is, the truth about the pain I’ve been in recently. It’s a difficult thing to explain because it has been a difficult space to inhabit. I never imagined my relationship with Master J could take such an intense dive. But it did, and I’ve only recently come back up [...]

RAF: Breakups & Bad Decisions

Collar Club Members & Loyal Followers: I read this quote (and fell in love with it): "My New Year started February 1st. January was a trial period." Between Sex Coaching, and preparing for our Campaign, Sex in America, I've had little time to just get back to the heart of what I do: Writing! I [...]

2019: Whole Lotta Shock & Raw

Happy New Year (22 days late!)! I gotta tell you, it feels so great to be writing again. The last few weeks transitioning web hosts has been...well, not a treat. But none of that matters because the Quean has returned, and she's come with some amazing updates. I’ve confided in all of you about my [...]

Holiday Special: Top 10 of 2018

2018 marks my life as the most monumental year of sexual discovery. From embracing the cuckquean within, opening myself to new sexual experiences, and, of course, launching this blog…I have propelled forward into the great unknown of my own desires, and have never looked back.I can see now that Call of the Quean was not [...]

Label Me, pt III

Click here for part I & part IIThe term quean is defined as “an impudent or badly behaved girl or woman; a prostitute.” The term cuckquean is defined as “a wife with an adulterous husband.” The term cuckhold is defined as “a man whose wife is sexually unfaithful, often regarded as an object of derision.”Even [...]

RAF: Q&A, Round II

Loyal followers and Collar Club Members, I have to admit one of my favourite things about being a blogger is receiving your sex and relationship questions. I’m humbled that many of you come to me for advice and guidance, be it through Q&A submissions or one-on-one coaching. Without your growing support, COTQ wouldn’t have gotten [...]