Lexi: Over Before It Began

Remember Lexi, My Husband's Sex Friend? She was the first woman I "authorized" my husband to explore on his own. I was curious what would come out of it, how I would feel knowing he'd be spending intimate time with her online. To be honest, it was nice at first. I enjoyed hearing about the [...]

RAF: Forget Sparks, Start an Inferno

This question came to me from an Instagram follower. It may be the one question most frequently asked by couples: how do you keep the spark alive in a long-term relationship? More specifically, the sparks that induce insatiable longing for one another? Rather than offering a 60 second video of half-assed advice, I really wanted [...]

RAF: Breakups & Bad Decisions

Collar Club Members & Loyal Followers: I read this quote (and fell in love with it): "My New Year started February 1st. January was a trial period." Between Sex Coaching, and preparing for our Campaign, Sex in America, I've had little time to just get back to the heart of what I do: Writing! I [...]