RAF: The True Evil

It’s Name: Jealousy So here it is, the truth about the pain I’ve been in recently. It’s a difficult thing to explain because it has been a difficult space to inhabit. I never imagined my relationship with Master J could take such an intense dive. But it did, and I’ve only recently come back up [...]

RAF: Forget Sparks, Start an Inferno

This question came to me from an Instagram follower. It may be the one question most frequently asked by couples: how do you keep the spark alive in a long-term relationship? More specifically, the sparks that induce insatiable longing for one another? Rather than offering a 60 second video of half-assed advice, I really wanted [...]

RAF: Breakups & Bad Decisions

Collar Club Members & Loyal Followers: I read this quote (and fell in love with it): "My New Year started February 1st. January was a trial period." Between Sex Coaching, and preparing for our Campaign, Sex in America, I've had little time to just get back to the heart of what I do: Writing! I [...]

Lexi, My Husband’s Sex Friend

Sitting, looking out onto the mountainous scenery, I’m struck by something. It’s a feeling I’ve never known before. It resides somewhere between jealousy, arousal and compersion. It’s confusing, thrilling, and addicting. My husband has a sex friend. I repeat to myself. An online one. Her name is Lexi. They began speaking over FetLife just before [...]