RAF: Reba Rose – Hoping Practice Makes Perfect

Every time I receive an email from this human - especially when there's a word doc attached to it - I get all giddy, for I know what I'm about to open will be profoundly moving. The best part is, she doesn't even mean to do it. Sometimes our truths are the most influential; sometimes … Continue reading RAF: Reba Rose – Hoping Practice Makes Perfect

RAF: When My Wife Came Out to Me…

I feel like I've introduced him a thousand times (and I never get sick of it)...but today, rather than me reiterating events, or lessons learned, he takes to the keyboard in his first ever guest post. A little funny, and very honest, without further ado, the love of my life, my rock, and the man … Continue reading RAF: When My Wife Came Out to Me…

RAF: Forget Sparks, Start an Inferno

This question came to me from an Instagram follower. It may be the one question most frequently asked by couples: how do you keep the spark alive in a long-term relationship? More specifically, the sparks that induce insatiable longing for one another? Rather than offering a 60 second video of half-assed advice, I really wanted … Continue reading RAF: Forget Sparks, Start an Inferno

RAF: Breakups & Bad Decisions

Collar Club Members & Loyal Followers: I read this quote (and fell in love with it): "My New Year started February 1st. January was a trial period." Between Sex Coaching, and preparing for our Campaign, Sex in America, I've had little time to just get back to the heart of what I do: Writing! I … Continue reading RAF: Breakups & Bad Decisions

Lexi, My Husband’s Sex Friend

Sitting, looking out onto the mountainous scenery, I’m struck by something. It’s a feeling I’ve never known before. It resides somewhere between jealousy, arousal and compersion. It’s confusing, thrilling, and addicting. My husband has a sex friend. I repeat to myself. An online one. Her name is Lexi. They began speaking over FetLife just before … Continue reading Lexi, My Husband’s Sex Friend