Let’s Hear It For New York

Going to the city that never sleeps is always an exciting venture. I imagined cocktails on rooftops, sex parties in slow motion, and finding bliss in Bowery. I'd be lying if I said none of those things happened (more on that later). For now here are some of the highs and lows the concrete jungle [...]

The Next Generation

The rain had stopped in the city, and I'd been aching to feel the breeze on my skin again. I'd basically become a hermit in the Big Apple. The problem was, the apartment had been far too warm for any kind of kanoodling, so it felt like a good opportunity to get some of that [...]

Van Life Diaries: Didn’t Break the Bed

Van life has begun! We are just finishing our second week, and although we have been indulged by people offering up their couches, and my parents booking motels, the few experiences Master J and I have actually had in the van thus far have been...interesting. Let's just say I've been confronted by many fears since [...]

Goodbye Oasis

Two days ago I crossed the border into the US, and therefore into a new chapter of my life. Master J sat beside me, nervous that anything could go wrong, and he would be denied access. He had his Visa in hand. I was confident that we took the proper steps, had all the right [...]

Road Trip [Sex] Bucket List

I've spent the last two days packing for my return to Canada. It's been an emotional time, as I'll be leaving a country that became my home for the last year and a half. As well, I'll be saying goodbye to the hubby for three weeks...which, if you know anything about me, is not an [...]

One Hell of an Update (Good Luck)

Pride, Snakes & Getting Kicked Off TinderSafe to say a lot has happened since my last blog post. It’s been twenty days of non-stop work, waking up at 7AM every day, getting sick (twice), missing Pride Week due to that said illness, finding a new (unwanted) admirer for Master J, and yes, you read that [...]

Picking Up the Pieces

CONTENT NOTE: This article covers topics of body image, emotional trauma, mental health and eating disorders. If you’ve been following my posts, be it on COTQ or social media, you know that my mental health has been a little haywire lately. Anyone who’s susceptible to emotional lows, as I am, can understand the impact it [...]